Adultery - The Great Paralyzer

Adultery creates a real predicament for woman. Here's what I've witnessed over the past four decades.

This driving force keeps countless loving and caring women in the dark - often for a lifetime. That's so sad but a real fact. Some women just wait until their kids are grown up to react. At that later stage in their lives they wait to take action. But in reality they do nothing feeling it’s too late. Instead they just adjust and learn to live with the denial, shame and heartache. But in reality, deep down in their heart, they hate themselves for taking a back seat to love. They feel trapped. It might be due to the financial aspect of their imprisonment while others have accepted their lot in life. This helpless and hopeless condition stems from living in a family where their father or mother was abused or trapped themselves.

In any case, adultery can be stopped in its tracks. How? Be informed, have an action plan - then do something. You can unleash the grip of "The Great Paralyzer." Are you in his grip? Well you don’t need to be anymore! Delay, denial and defeat no longer need to have a stronghold. But only you can show them the door. Why wait? Why let denial or fear rule your world? If you do wait you might just be the last to know. Or worse yet, he may leave you stranded, in debt and denial. Again I ask you "Are you in the grip of The Great Paralyzer"?

Here's a simple and bold plan of escape:

1. Realize you have the strength to handle the change.
2. You are not a victim but a victor.
3. Believe in yourself.
4. Find someone to push you in the right direction.
5. Gather truth and evidence - this will empower you.
6. Don't loose your "cool" or you will let go of your strength.
7. Be fair but be true to yourself.

Please heed these warning ladies before it’s too late and see the grip loosing as freedom returns to your heart.

Your friend

Bill Mitchell, licensed private investigator, author with a background in psychology and known as The Seven-Day Detective. A regular guest on Dr. Phil and seen on Fox News, The Today Show and The Early Show.

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